BondMeter

BondMeter is a mobile app (with a lightweight web dashboard) that turns “love languages” from a quiz result into a shared, measurable routine. Each partner sets their top 1–2 preferred actions (e.g., words of affirmation, quality time) and logs tiny moments that happened that day. The app converts these into a weekly “connection score” and highlights mismatches like “you gave gifts, they needed time.” An AI coach suggests specific, low-effort actions tailored to each person’s preferences, schedule, and budget, and it prompts quick check-ins after dates or conflicts. It’s not therapy and won’t fix deep incompatibility, but it can reduce the common problem of partners trying hard in the wrong way. Privacy-first: no public profiles, no DMs with strangers, and data export/delete built in.