GestureGrid

GestureGrid is a mobile + web app that helps couples consistently follow through on thoughtful romance gestures without turning love into a chore. You and your partner set preferences (what feels romantic vs. annoying), budgets, time windows, and boundaries. The app then generates a lightweight “gesture calendar” with tiny, doable ideas (notes, micro-dates, favors, surprise deliveries) and reminders timed around real life. It also includes a “proof of effort” check-in (photo, short note, or confirmation) to reduce forgotten plans, plus an opt-in reciprocity mode so one partner doesn’t carry the emotional labor. An AI layer personalizes suggestions from your past wins/declines and local options, but you can run it mostly manually if you hate algorithmic romance. It’s built for consistency, not grand gestures, and it avoids cringe by learning your tone and limits.