MergeMeter

MergeMeter is a mobile + web app that helps couples run a realistic “trial merge” before moving in, getting engaged, or setting a wedding date. It turns the vague stuff that breaks relationships—money habits, cleanliness standards, social needs, sex expectations, family boundaries, career tradeoffs—into short weekly check-ins and concrete experiments (e.g., a 2-week budget sprint, chore swap week, in-law boundary script). The app scores alignment by topic, highlights the top 3 friction points, and generates a simple action plan with deadlines. It also includes a shared decision log so couples can revisit what they agreed to, instead of re-litigating every fight. This isn’t therapy and won’t “save” bad relationships; it’s a practical compatibility and execution tool that surfaces dealbreakers early and reduces repeated arguments later.